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Open Question: Do you think it's possible that a person can bounce back from all this?

A very close friend of mine is going through A LOT at the moment. I have known her since we were very young kids and she's always been the clever, pretty one with 3 sisters and two happy parents. She's good at everything but seems to have had some BAAAD luck recently! Here are the 10 most traumatic/stressful events that can happen to you. 1. divorce / breakup 2. bereavement 3. losing job 4. Wedding planning 5. Work 6. Kids / Family 7. Debt 8. Commuting 9. Studying for exams 10. Pregnancy In the past year, she has suffered most recently (a month ago) 1.divorce of her parents who always looked so happy, 4. She is singing at a wedding (it's a part time job) and it's not going too well. 5. Work at school is very hard and she's a serious perfectionist 6. Her family is all over the place atm. And she's not getting on at all well with one of her sisters! 7. She's out of money (but she still lives with her parents thankfully) 8. She's moving out of her house of 10 years 9. Both of us have this! Major, university qualifying exams! 10. Only a scare. Thank GOD. She has also developed EDNOS (an eating disorder) though she's pulling through. And through all this, she still manages to be perfect in public. Is that a show? Is it even possible that she can recover from all this?? more

Open Question: finally moving but why do i feel so emotional?

we have been staying at a relatives house which was supposed to work out longterm but he didnt do anything he was supposed to therefore breaking the contract before wed even moved in, the house is unsafe and there are leaks when it rains causing mould so we knew we had to get out asap the fact we have a 1 1/2 year old and that he doesnt care for her health is what bothered us most i think. we have been looking for new places for the last week or so and something came up which we viewd yyesterday and its perfect so weve agreed to it all and were moving in at the end of the month, but the thought of it all has made me feel really guilty and emotional but i cant work out why. i think its because we wanted this house to be a family home but its not worked out because the family member wont do anything he is supposed to, i know its the sensible thing to leave and that he hasnt done us any favours to stay, but i just feel bad that we are leaving even though i shouldnt because hes a really horrible person. why am i feeling like this? will it pass when we actually move? we wasnt ever happy here so i thought id be really happy and excited but now its all gone through i just feel like crying. we are trying for another baby at the moment if that makes any difference but its too early for me to actually be pregnant so it cant be hormones from pregnancy yet, what do you think and how would you be feeling in my shoes? thanksthanks :) youre right, i think its because my partner has tried really hard to sort things out with this family member and it will end on bad terms that wed never speak to him again and i think my partner will take it hard even though its for the best, just wish i could feel as excited as i did yesterday im sure i will just shocked by how my moods changed so suddenly. more

Open Question: Why is My family treating me this way.Should I go to my brothers Wedding,should I keep trying or stop contact?

This is a long question but please read fully as I desperatly need help, Thanks. We always used to be a close family, I always did every thing I could and have always gone out my way to help my family. 12 years ago my oldest brother left his wife the day she had his 3rd child she was beside her self. I was only 17 at the time but I went to live with his wife and bought up and looked after his children for several years. I was the one who got up in the night when his daughter cried. I was the one who made his daughters bottles. I washed dressed fed, took his children to school and collected them again. I put them to bed at night. All whilst trying to do a college course at the same time. I never once got a thank you not even from his now ex wife. 7 years ago my other brother fell in to deep depression and hit rock bottom, he had no where to live no job nothing. Me and my husband took him in gave him a roof over his head, fed him etc and never asked for a penny in return. He got him self back on top He met a nice girl and even managed to get a good job as a policeman. Again I never got a thank you. My dad I was always close too, I have always looked out for him and always had him round for meals and would go for days out with him etc. The only thing I have ever done wrong, was giving up on university and my college degree as I could not cope when my mum died. I had a nervous break down and tried to commit suicide. I found it very hard as I was very close to my mum, She was not just my mum but my best friend too. 6 years ago we had to move away to the other end of the country for my husbands work. At the same time my sister moved to australia with her husband and son. For the 2 years my dad came up to see ups regularly and we would go and see him. Then 3 1/2 years ago when he got with his new partner the visits stopped. He has not been to see us in 3 years, he goes every year to australia for 3 weeks to see my sister he just won't come to see us. He rarely phones and when he does phone he just puts me down and is rude.For example he can't except that my children are not normal ( they have autism) like his other perfect grandchildren. My oldest son who is 6 years old and has asperg syndrome was thrown out of school at the beginning of the year as the school could not afford to keep him as they could not afford the help he needs to attend school he had a state ment but the LEA refused to give the funding for the amount of help he needed so I am now having to teach him and my other son at home. The other day my dad phoned and said I was a rubish mum and that I was not fit to teach my son as I had failed my gcses. Which is a lie I did not fail my gcses I got low grades but that was not my fault I missed my last year of school as I ended up in hospital after a tumor was found in my leg. The day I went back to school was the day of my first exam. I got 1xC 5xDs 1XE & 1xF. It really upset me what he said. The last time.I went down was to take his new baby grand daughter to see him but we wish we hadn't gone. I asked him if he wanted to hold her. He answered I don't do baby's but if I have to I will. He also kept saying I hope you are going to get done now so you don't have any more children. He made many other rude comments and made us feel very un welcome. We left a day early in the end and went to see friends in the instead. My brothers are the same they used to come and Visit but don't any more and very rarely phone I have to phone them. My brother is getting married is september and he has asked us to come we said yes but yesterday we saw a copy of the table plan and they have put us on a table right at the back miles away from every one, with every one elses children. So we have to look after every one Else's children. THis really up set me and my husband and makes us feel perhaps we are not wanted at the wedding. We are wondering whether to go or not. do you think we should go what would you din this situation would you find this insulting or am I just being paranoid. We are thinking maybe just going to the wedding service and not going to the meal and party after wards. Maybe we should go and just try and put up with the situation, I don't want to spoil there wedding. My dad had promised again to come and see us this year but phoned again last night had a go at me and then told me he was going to austraila for 3 months with his parnter. to stay with my sister. Why are my family being like this and why is my dad being like this I just don't know what I have done.It is really upsetting me and I can't stop crying. I have tried talking to my dad on the phone but he won't listen, he just trys to turn it on me. I have thought about going to see him to talk to him face to face but he would just get angry and agresive and would not list and would likley hit me out of anger. I was thinking of writing a letter explaining how I feel, do you think it would be ok to write a letter or not. Also they way I feel at the moment I feel like telling my dad where to go and that I don't want him in my life any more or my childrens life. do you think this is a bad thing to say im so confussed I don't know what to say or do. Any advice would be much appreciated thanks in advanceMy family and my dad are not religious at all My family and dad used to go to church regually but havent been to church in about 18 years. And don't really follow any religion. more

Resolved Question: Was she ever a real friend to me?

I hope this is accepted and someone can shed some light on it for me as I can not think clearly and still hurt very much over it. My friend and I have known each other our whole lives, we grew up next door to other and i saw her as a sister i cared that much for her. We have been through so much, my family has been through tragedy of the worst kind and she has seen all that i have been struggling with to cope with it etc., Always was there for her, cancelled nights out with others when she needed me as a shoulder to cry on or just to cheer her up. I took the day off work for her wedding day (wasnt invited to actual do just evening do as it was a small wedding) to help her out, that morning i was up at 8... doing nails, make-up helping them all get dressed etc etc. tidied up her house when they were at the ceremony for when they got back, made fresh sandwiches for them and guests on return (got no thanks from her when i think back, but i didn't do all that just to get recognition for it)... She found out she was expecting again and said to me am to be Godmother and promised me etc etc.. i said i didnt mind if she sure cus she has sisters etc and she said no definitely me because i would be a good role model and she couldnt think of anyone else she rather have so i was delighted (1st time for me, have no godchildren)... left it at that... months rolled on,baby born... i go and buy gifts and also an outfit for the christening as it was a very big deal to me... got worried as she never ever mentioned it to me re- godmother duties, christening details etc... she started avoiding me, wouldnt answer the door to me quite a few times so i left it for her to get in touch with me... heard nothing and decided just to text asking her for details and she said i not to be godmother etc etc.. i said that fine but could have told me sooner (had my hopes up big time).. so time went on heard nothin of christening so again i had to make contact with her and it had all be arranged for the upcoming weekend but that she didnt tell me because it was only for family small do can't afford much more... i said i understood that but to keep me out completely really hurt my feelings. Anyway, day of christening i find out she lied... there were a crowd of people at the house afterwards... family and "friends" of all kinds... except me.. i never felt so so so neglected and hurt she didn't have to do that on me. I had had enough so i left it... never bothered with her until i heard she had a bit of bother and so i immediately contacted her to say sorry bout her troubles and to ask if she ok what happened etc etc could i help etc etc... she ignored my calls and texts but i didnt stop until she replied... a week later... very dry, short and sweet, so i tried to sort things out with her (even though i did nothing wrong, and it was her that went all cold hearted and uncaring towards me, nasty to me) but she never responded back. And to this day, nothing, that was four months ago. I don't understand. I feel used and abused just when she needed the help she wanted me and when things were bad she wanted me but now all is good and happy and she doesn't need help she ignores me, and worst of all after everything i have done for her through the years... this is how she treats me. Despite all that.. i still actually care for her and worry about her but why should i when she clearly doesn't! Was she ever a friend in the first place? I have made no contact since because it is up to her to make touch with me and she only lives a street away! Or should I swallow my hurt and just make contact with her? What would you do. Someone who is true to me told me that she is no friend to have treated me the way she did, no friend would disown you, hurt you deliberately (yes she knows she hurt me i told her and she never acknowledged it) and no friend would go without contact as they would be thinking of you and wondering how you are so they would make contact themselves etc.. I am a very good friend to have so i have been told by many people... am i wasting it sitting waiting and expecting her to call with me? I would love to hear other people's opinions.. Please help thank youthank you very much, i have taken on board your advices, appreciate your take on my problem :D more

Resolved Question: What are the best colour for me to wear? (colour analysis)?

Hi I am a 20 year old female and I am going to a wedding in 1 month and want to buy a dress that looks good on me, mostly they don't look that good on me. Does anyone know what colour dress would look best on me? I look about 15, I always look a lot younger than I am no matter what I do I am a Uk size 6/8, sorry don't know USA or euro sizes I have blue grey eyes brown, about between mid and light brown hair, which goes a little further than my shoulders I have slightly yellow tinge to arms, but have porcelain face Which colour/colours would look best on me please? Also what make up and colours should I wear as all I normally wear is foundation as I never know what colour or what else I should wear? If no one can do this from this information does anyone know where I can go online to get them done for free as I do not have lots of money to spend more

Resolved Question: What Is Wrong With Me?

I started going out with my ex boyfriend when i was 15 years old..We went out on/off for nearly 4 years..Its been nearly 5 years since we broke up..He broke my heart that time but im totally over that now.. Since then i havent had a relationship like that again but there is another guy friend that i really like.. About 6 months ago i saw my ex again..I don't know why but i wanted to get in touch with him and so i did..But then he started taking it all too serious and showing me love, so i pulled away..And told him we cant be friends..Mainly coz i don't wanna get back together and i thought i was leading him on with this friendship...I could see he wanted to get back with me.. It was his birthday so i messaged him on Facebook Happy Birthday and he replied Thanks..I wana messgae him and ask how he is but cant coz i was the 1 that said we cant be friends..Plus i saw a family wedding video which i didnt go to and i saw him in the video..I feel like mentioning it too him that i saw him and ask him how he is...Can i do that? Why do i keep doing this? Im still attracted to him even when i see him now..But when he tries to get close to me to for more then friendship i move away and stop contact..When we try be friends it doesn't work coz then he doesn't keep in touch much which bothers me then..I don't know what i want or why i do this?I don't know why i want to be friend with him..I know its not fair what i do to him..Help He was my first love and i havent really had another proper relationship ever since..im not in love with him but yeah i love /care for him more

Resolved Question: How can i get rid of the fat on my lower back?

I've brought this fabulous little back dress for my 1 year wedding anniversary, and its flattering to my shape, however, you can still see that i have a fat arse and a fat lower back. How can i get rid of this? more

Resolved Question: engagement anniversary and 21st birthday combination?

its my fiancees 21st in 2 weeks time And it is also our 1 year engagement anniversary. she is very excited and has high hopes for an imaginative and special present however she is quite picky and has high standards. low budget preferred as we are saving for our wedding!!! thankyouOh forgot to add.... don't bother answering this question if you're a sad, pathetic lonely individual whose only pleasure in life is to smear your crap over other peoples questions thank you. more

Resolved Question: BNG - Long and please try include nicknames with the names!?

1. You arrive at your new university to find a nice boy catching your eye. When you go over to him he tells you that he is called _________________, and you tell him that you're called _________________. 2. At the end of university dance, he asks you out, and with delight, you say yes! You have your first date as a couple in __________. At the end of the date, he takes you back to his plush luxury _______ and you make out. 3. Three weeks later you find out that you're pregnant with triplets, 2 girls and 1 boy! You decide to make sure all of their first names are relate with nature or jewels, and that their middle names will be after 2 family members, and your best friend! What do you call them? _________ and _________ and _______. 4. When the triplets are 3, you and _______ decide to try for one more baby. To your utter surprise, you find out you're expecting 5 little bundles of joy! They are 3 boys, 2 girls. You name them all flowers/nature/jewel's and their middle names are of your choice! What are they called? _______ and _______ and _________ and __________ and ________. 5. When the triplets are 5, and the quintuplets are 2, you finally get married! All the children are bridesmaids/pageboys, and your wedding colours are ______ and ________. You get married in ________ and just you and _______ have a honeymoon in ______ while the kids stay with grandparents. 6. When you return back from your honeymoon, you worry that you're pregnant. You take a test, and you are expecting! Thankfully it's just the 1, a girl, and you decide to name her after your Mum. What do you name your little angel? ________. 7. When the triplets are 6, the quin's are 3, and your angel is 1, you move to a much bigger house in ________, with __ bedrooms and __ bathrooms. Enough rooms for your babies to move about in! 8. As a special treat, you and your husband decide to buy a puppy. You buy a _____ puppy and call it _______. 9. Forward alot of years, and the triplets are 30, the quin's are 27, and the youngest girl is 25. The triplets each have 2 kids, one of the quintuplets has 4 kids (the rest have 2), and the youngest girl has 1 little girl. What are all their genders? 10. What are your kids called (+nn) and what are your grandkids called (+nn)? Enjoy! :)1. I am called Jordan Crofts, and he is called Tyler Powell. 2. We have a date in Nandos, and he takes me back to his plush luxury apartment. 3. Ruby Tina, Lily Rose and Aspen Kenneth. 4. Scarlett May, Jada(Jade) Fleur, Willow Anthony, Rylan William and Logan River. 5. Wedding colours are purple and white. We get married in Buckinghamshire and jet over to Hawaii for honeymoon. 6. Millie Louise. 7. Buckinghamshire, 10 bedrooms, 4 bathrooms. 8. Siberian Husky called Blaze. 9. Triplet 1- Both girls Triplet 2 - Both boys Triplet 3 - Both Quin 1 - 3 girls, 1 boy Quin 2 - 2 girls Quin 3 - 2 boys Quin 4 - 2 girls Single - 1 girl I'll do number 10 on a different 'Add Details' section xoxTriplet 1 called Ruby Tina - Both girls – Lola Marie & Darcy Jessica Triplet 2 called Lily Rose - Both boys - Nathaniel (Nathan) Joseph & Joshua (Josh) Callum Triplet 3 called Aspen Kenneth – Both – Saffron (Saffy) Eliza & Jacob (Jake) Zachary Quin 1 called Scarlett May - 3 girls, 1 boy – Jayla May, Clarissa Jane, Makenna Jaye & Dylan (Dyl) Cole Quin 2 called Jada Fleur - 2 girls – Makayla (Kayla) Fleur & Rosie Jayne Quin 3 called Willow (Will) Anthony - 2 boys – Freddie Lewis & Benjamin (Ben) James Quin 4 called Rylan (Ry) William - 2 girls – Lilah Grace & Madelyn (Maddie) Rose Quin 5 called Logan River – both – Stacey Jade & Kyle Lewis Single called Millie Louise - 1 girl – Alexis (Lexi) May more

Voting Question: Is this dress good for a reception?

Going to a wedding reception not the actual wedding where i can't wear cream, gold or turquoise. is this dress good for a 14 year old? http://www.asos.com/Asos/Asos-Pleat-Detail-One-Shoulder-Dress/Prod/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=1096729&cid=8799&sh=0&pge=2&pgesize=200&sort=-1&clr=Navy more

Resolved Question: SPRAY TAN OR SUNBED?!?!?

SPRAY TAN OR SUNBED?!?!? I'M going to a wedding next weekend and i want to look a bit more bronzed! i am olivy skinned anyway as my dad is quite dark and i have dark hair so i tan very easily anyway. Ive not been on holiday abroad for years so its either spray tan or bed .. i know the dangers and risks in sunbeds i never use them anymore only when i was in my late teens i'm now 23. But spray tanning just seems so messy and also i shower daily and have heard that showering isn't a god idea if you wanna keep the tan on for longer than a week max! Well i do ..so im think sunbeds the better option and its only a one off what would u do?? 1 second ago - 4 days left to answer. more

Resolved Question: What do you think of these dresses for my daughter and I to wear to a wedding?

My partner and I are going to a wedding next weekend with my 4 year old daughter and our 16 month old daughter. I am currently 30 weeks pregnant. My daughter doesn't fit in 4 year olds clothes, she fits in 3 year olds clothes. Mine: http://www.asos.com/Asos/Asos-Maternity-Exclusive-Ruched-Wrap-Dress/Prod/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=1167393&cid=5813&Rf900=1465&Rf-300=1356&sh=0&pge=0&pgesize=-1&sort=-1&clr=Grey Daughter's: http://www.monsoon.co.uk/NEW-Arrivals/Baby-Girl-Jessica-Print-Satin-Dress/invt/75829129&bklist=icat,5,shop,children,babygirl,babypartydress more

Voting Question: How to lose 3 inches from my waist in 3 weeks?

Hi There I am already very active but have about 14lbs to lose, I workout alot but have a wedding to go to in a few weeks and have a lovely dress to wear except it won't do up on the side by about 3 inches!! Please help, serious exercisers might be able to point me in the right direction - here is my regime: Monday: Legs, Bums & Tums 45 mins + 1 hour of cardio Tuesday: Intermediate Pilates 55 mins Wednesday: Body jam 1 hour (dance class) + advanced spinning 1 hour Thursday: Advanced pilates 55 mins Friday: Personal Training 1 hour Saturday: Aerobics - 45 mins I am going to start walking up and down 2 flights of stairs at work, 4 times a day and add half an hour of cardio before my pt session on a friday? Anything else I can do?? Please bear in mind I have hip problems and need a replacement (not that you would know it with all that exercise, but it's taken me a year to get there after surgery) Many thanks in advance! Claire more

Voting Question: Does anybody have any tips on how to make a picture slideshow to be played at a Wedding?

My cousin has asked me to make a slideshow of him and his Fiancé to be played at his wedding reception including their early years e.g. christening, 1st birthday, 1st day at school, etc. But now I don't know how I will display the photos, i.e. If I do Captions like "1st Birthday" and have a photo of him and her on their 1st birthday, so on so fourth. That would go great until I get to the photos of when they're together then I don't know what kind of captions to do. HELP!!! If anybody has any kind of ideas on themes and captions please tell me. BTW: I am using ProShow Gold to make the slideshow (if that helps)! more

Voting Question: What would you do in this situation?

At 11:00pm I went to bed, my mobile started ringing, my mother's number was on the screen, I answered it and a man was talking about my sister and that I had upset her, I asked how as I haven't seen my step sister for 10 years, the man said I was not at the wedding and never sent a gift and complained that people in the family had given my sister all sorts of things for wedding gifts and I had not even sent a card, I asked who he was and he said he was my step sister's husband, I told him I had been contacted by my mother a couple of months ago and she did say my step sister had got remarried, she hadn't told me when and I never got an invite to the wedding so that was it, I heard my step mother in the back say that I did not go to my grandmother's funeral 2 years ago, he of course started going on about this, I told him I was told not to go because my grandmother had requested that only her brothers and daughters went, he shouted at me and said at that time he was not part of the family then and went there, I put the phone down and went to bed, I always keep my mobile next to me in bed because my partner calls me sometimes in the night when he is at work, my mobile was ringing and I answered it and again the same voice, he was asking me why when I was 11 I hit my sister on the head with a stiletto heel, I said it was her who cracked my head open and I have the scar and she did this when she was 17 because her Boyfriend did not turn up at the house one Saturday afternoon, I remember this she came into the room and saw that he was not there watching TV with us waiting for her to finish work, she was upset and said I was laughing at her and took off her shoe and whacked me on my head, blood everywhere, but anyway, Mum called me at 1:30am and said that I was not wanted in the family because my Step sister and her 7th husband are really nice to her and buy her things and take her on holiday, I said I was sorry and I couldn't do anything like buy her stuff holidays and things because I cannot work because of my spine, then she called me aa retard, what do I do now? more

Resolved Question: Why do you think of my it`s great to be a man?

1. Same work ....more pay 2. One mood, All the damn time 3. You don`t give a rat`s @rse if someone notices your new haircut 4.Wedding plans take care of themselves 5.You never feel compelled to stop a friend from getting laid 6.Car mechanics tell you the truth 7.Phone conversations are over in 30 seconds 8.Hot wax never comes near your pubic area 9.Your bum is never a factor in a job interview 10.Wrinkles add character 11.You don`t have to leave the room to make emergency crotch adjustments 12.Your belly usually hides your big hips. 13.People never glance at your chest when you are talking to them 14. Your orgasms are real,Always 15.A five day holiday requires only a very small suitcase 16.The same hairstyle lasts for years, maybe decades 17.You are unable to see wrinkles in clothes 18.You can open all your own jars 19.The garage is all yours 20.If another guy shows up at the party in the same outfit, you just might become lifelong friends. more

Resolved Question: I need opinions. Please help. Could I be diagnosed with depression?

I checked this website http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/Depression/… today to see whether I could be diagnosed with depression because often I feel sad. From the Psychological symptoms, I feel everything in the list. But I cant seem to cry anymore, and even if I did, I only cry for 1 minute maximun and I cannot cry anymore. And I do feel irritated and frustrated by a people very easily and the slightest thing even makes me want to kill them. Referring to the last one, for me being single now, I cant seem to enjoy that even by myself. I know I used to. But I dont feel anything at all! from Physical symptoms:, I also do have everything in the list, as getting up early in the morning is such a big deal for me. My parents gets so mad at me for that, and dad yells at me every time. That's when I cried for 30 seconds today and I couldnt anymore. And even when I talk, I feel like a retarded person because sometimes in the middle of the sentence I get stuck. (reference to the first point) Social symptoms: I'm studying away from home, and after my comeback, I dont have any interest to meet any of my friends, eventhough I met a few. And going to parties and other social gatherings is another big deal for me. I get that suffocated feeling in crowded places, kind of a panic attack. The last attack was just 5 days ago at a friend's wedding.. I feel like no one loves me. I have no problems with my parents or family or with friends, but I've never had a companion. I've been single for very long time. Probably more than 5 years. Could I be diagnosed with depression? Btw, I'm not a teen-older than that. more

Voting Question: I don't know what to do now?

I go to this extra school called bsms and 10 more people got accepted in this school as well and we go once every 2 months, on the 4th session a girl called Katie (fake name) asked who I fancied so I stupidly told her and she promised she won’t tell anyone and she still is. But on the 5th session, there is another 2 boys and one of them is really popular and the other one is normal, I was talking to Katie and the normal one went up to me and her saying “come on just tell me who you fancy, and Katie purposely told the normal boy and after that I felt over stressed because I was worried he will tell the popular boy and more people in school, but he hasn’t”, Before the 5th session starts on the 1st week after the 4th session I and my friend wanted the make a start of this whole thing so basically there is 3 basketball courts. One of them belongs to the year 11, one of them was the polish kids, and one of them if the one I fancy called CK (fake name), other friends are called Dobby, Windmill (fake names) And the third court is mine and my mates, MON- we asked the polish for a match and between the match one of our team mate the there team mate called poppy (fake name) were being racist and from there we argued (which was a complete failure for me- because I wanted everyone to be friends with each other, so it would be easier for me to get to CK) but in the end they won the match TUES- we asked again so the finally accepted the challenge then we had to stop half way because it became a disaster for us.  it almost got into a bigger fight then Mondays. WED- the year 11s went up to my side of the court and said want a challenge, and we said yes. Then the polish people looked at us, and wanted to join but the only problem was that Ck wasn’t there he was at the fields and poppy didn’t want to play, it was just windmill and dobby, thanks to them guys we won THURS- the same thing happened, but because CK isn’t joining lately I started to feel something different about Windmill FRI- same thing happened but this time CK came but didn’t want to play so he just played shooting practices with Poppy, which was frustrating and my friend who is the only one who knew why we were asking for a match said to me “DAMN, we’re doing all this for CK and he isn’t even playing” Weeks after nothing really happened except I started to fancy windmill, but more on CK (obviously) When my 5th session on my extra school I was so worried on that day Katie or normal guy will tell the popular one, but they didn’t but before they will told anyone, because I wanted to fact coming from me not the people that normal and Katie tells. So, I went up to CK with my friend and told him I fancied him. Then the said “he couldn’t give a s***” then walked off, which was a bit disappointing because the way he said it, but happy he didn’t laugh about it and didn’t really say anything bad about it. And after all that he tries to talk to me but he can’t probably because he feels awkward with me now, but he smiles at my mate. Which is so annoying. But the thing is that because his not at the basketball courts anymore Windmill and poppy are the only ones there now I stared to feel stronger with him than CK. And I think I fancy windmill a lot more that CK (By the way I will never tell Katie and Normal of this whole thing- if I do then I would be in deep s***) Then I discovered there in my PE class for GCSE, and I don’t want them being there, because I hate the way I run, and its going to put them off, I don’t know what to do? Should I tell windmill that I fancy him? Why do you think CK wont smile at me but smiles at my friend, what does it actually mean, does it mean he wants to know who we are? What should I do if Katie tells people and they pick on me for it, because I know she’s in my science class and it’s very likely for CK being there? Should I change my options from my Pe class? Did the week of all the basketball match make any difference? Do you think CK knows why we have been asking for a basketball matches? How can i get windmill to be my friend, what my plan is that i can try invite him after school, because me and my friend do basketball shooting after school as well as during school, but if your guys think it's a good idea then how can i do it? Sorry its long more

Resolved Question: I have size 9 1/2 feet (womens) and I can't find any shoes? (UK)?

I'm 14 and I've had size 9 feet since I was 12, now I'm 9 1/2, and the whole time I've had trouble finding shoes -without having them custom made because they'd cost too much. Anyway I'm completely stuck now because all the size 9 shoes and up I find are either -too narrow (wide feet too) -have heels (I don't wear heels because don't fancy messing up my spine thank you very much) -aren't suitable -just don't fit/aren't comfortable at all and I'm pretty stuck. I'm really having trouble with school shoes as well because the girls rules for shoes are... -black shoes (no other colour at all, not even white) -no heels above 2 inches (wouldn't wear heels anyway) -no logos -no trainers ...so I've been wearing the same pair of shoes for two years (in the bin now because it's the holidays and they were falling apart) and I went back to the same company but they didn't have anything and I checked the catalogue to see what would be coming in and there wasn't anything there either. I know people are telling me that bigger shoe sizes are coming in for women because bigger feet are becoming more common but I sort of need them now, pretty desperate. Literally, I only have three pairs of shoes in existence now, one pair are flip flops that are too small but it doesn't really matter, another pair are dolly shoes I got for a wedding which don't fit and I can't wear them for over an hour or so before getting blisters and cramps, and the last pair are the only ones that actually fit me which are trainers but they're pink and white (I'm not a pink person =/) and they're wearing down slowly -the shop where I got these has closed down =/ So does anyone know any shops in the UK that sell big shoes for women? Or even mens' shoes that are feminine? (I'm desperate.) Don't say New Look because I check all the time, I got one pair of pumps that fit me but they wore doesn't and had huge holes so I was basically walking in socks with pump camouflage =/ I know some people will probably see this as a stupid thing but I also need ones that are pretty 'girly' for some things because e.g. I have skinny jeans that don't go with my trainers and only go with my dolly shoes, and I have a huge annual thing coming up where I'll have to wear a dress with ankle leggings/skinny jeans (I'm that type of person haha) and my trainers wouldn't go because it's quite formal ...also please don't say Brantano because their shoes really aren't 'my thing' and they never fit right either :( or websites that you can't return stuff to ...plus my maximum spending money on one pair of shoes is about £30 ...more like £20 we've kinda not got enough to throw around because I'm pretty rough with stuff I wear so they don't last long haha :) Thanks in advance for the decent answers :) xI've tried Evans but they didn't fit, they were too bit in the wrong places because I have thin feet haha (I think I'm part duck...) so they were too big upwards if you could say that haha and I tried insoles but they didn't work :( more

Resolved Question: Is this a good workout? ( lifter to runner )?

Hey. Background info; I'm 16, 103kg and about 5"7. Yeah, I know I'm pretty big, I've been lifting weights for about a year, with some decent results in size and strength. Is this workout good, I aim to lose a few KGs, burn some fat and in 1-2 months be able to run for a 'decent' length, 10 minutes plus. My workout consists of 5 days in the gym. Mon-Fri. On monday, wednesday, and friday, I do a weights session, aswell as mild cardio, on the 2 days i focus on cardio. On mon-wed-fri. I do. About 3 sets of each muscle group, For example, 3 sets of chest presses, 3 sets of shoulder presses. I do this for, my shoulders, chest, back, abs, triceps, biceps, and legs. I'm curious, does it matter much that I do one movement, I'm used to isolation. Like I used to do chest presses, flies, Inclines and declines just for my chest. But I've been advised on my last question to do 3 sets per muscle group. ( or round about) So, will it affect me if I just do, for example, 3x chest presses. ( and that be it for my chest). I'd then go onto a cross trainer, doing 20 minutes keeping my heart rate in my fat burning zone, for me, 133bpm. Is this reccomended? On the remaining days, I just do cardio. I'd start with 10 minutes on the cross trainer, keeping my heart rate in the FBZ. I'd then move onto the treadmill. I'd do 5 minutes at 6km/ph, as a warm up. I'd then move onto interval training, I'd do 1 minute on 6km/ph ( a fast-ish walk) and then 1 minute on 10km/ph ( a steady jog). I'd do this for 10 minutes, ( 5 minutes of each). I'd then cooldown by a 5 minute walk on decreasing speeds. After this i'm usually beat, I can only jog for about 4 minutes straight, but I feel I accomplish more doing it this way. Overtime I'll increase the jog interval by about 30 seconds per week. Is this cardio routine good? And what other exercise can I do, Is cycling reccomended? I can't really jog any more because I'm so beat. Any advice tips are greatly welcome. Take care. more

Resolved Question: Was my ex just messing with me?

So my ex boyfriend text me on friday out of the blue,i seen him two weeks ago at a friends wedding,he said "did you have fun at the wedding". So i text back and say "yes it was a great day,did you have a good time" And got no reply at all. So yesterday i text and say "who is this "just to make sure it was him as i deleted his number but it looked familiar(i knew it was him just wondered why he never replied. He texts back saying "chris," and thats it . So i say "oh rite just wasnt sure when you never replied back" and he says "ok" Then i say "you know how blonde i can be " and he text back saying "lol" And that was it,so i thought i aint replying to that,what can i say to that,nothing. So now im thinking why the hell did you text me to ignore me and then send 1 word texts,he is a compulsive liar and thats why we broke up because he was a cheat.i just dont understand why he text in the first place .?can you help?why text me in the first place for me then to reply and ignore me?its pointless?mind games?it seems immature hes 28 !!i still have feeling for him ,have done for 4 years,do i text him again?or see if he texts me,at the wedding he was flirting but hes confusing . more

Voting Question: Why do you think he text me ?

(ive posted this before but i appreciate ppls opinions) So my ex boyfriend text me on friday out of the blue,i seen him two weeks ago at a friends wedding,he said "did you have fun at the wedding". So i text back and say "yes it was a great day,did you have a good time" And got no reply at all. So yesterday i text and say "who is this "just to make sure it was him as i deleted his number but it looked familiar(i knew it was him just wondered why he never replied. He texts back saying "chris," and thats it . So i say "oh rite just wasnt sure when you never replied back" and he says "ok" Then i say "you know how blonde i can be " and he text back saying "lol" And that was it,so i thought i aint replying to that,what can i say to that,nothing. So now im thinking why the hell did you text me to ignore me and then send 1 word texts,he is a compulsive liar and thats why we broke up because he was a cheat.i just dont understand why he text in the first place .?can you help?why text me in the first place for me then to reply and ignore me?its pointless?mind games?it seems immature hes 28 !!i still have feeling for him ,have done for 4 years,do i text him again?or see if he texts me,at the wedding he was flirting but hes confusing . more

Voting Question: Why did my ex boyfriend do this?

So my ex boyfriend text me on friday out of the blue,i seen him two weeks ago at a friends wedding,he said "did you have fun at the wedding". So i text back and say "yes it was a great day,did you have a good time" And got no reply at all. So yesterday i text and say "who is this "just to make sure it was him as i deleted his number but it looked familiar(i knew it was him just wondered why he never replied. He texts back saying "chris," and thats it . So i say "oh rite just wasnt sure when you never replied back" and he says "ok" Then i say "you know how blonde i can be " and he text back saying "lol" And that was it,so i thought i aint replying to that,what can i say to that,nothing. So now im thinking why the hell did you text me to ignore me and then send 1 word texts,he is a compulsive liar and thats why we broke up because he was a cheat.i just dont understand why he text in the first place .?can you help?why text me in the first place for me then to reply and ignore me?its pointless?mind games?it seems immature hes 28 !!i still have feeling for him ,have done for 4 years,do i text him again?or see if he texts me,at the wedding he was flirting but hes confusing . more

Resolved Question: Question for any one in west sussex advice needed regarding getting a bus pass?

I am coming down to west sussex for a week for my brothers wedding. My husband and 3 children were meant to come with me but my Husband has been having problems with work and getting the time off. So It looks like I am going to have to go down on my own with my 3 children on the train. I don't drive due to medical reasons. I was wanting to use the bus whilst down there to get to places to see different family members and to take my children places. I will probably use the bus at least twice a day both times returns. Quite long journeys. IF I pay each bus journey as I go I am afraid that it is going to mount up and be expensive. Does any one know if stage coach do a weekly bus pass that would cover me and my children, like a family weekly bus pass or some thing and If so how much it would cost. I have looked on the stage coach website and the only bus passed they mention on website are a mega bus pass which is a 4 week bus pass which is too long, I only need 1 week & only would cover only me. I will be mainly travelling between, chichester, Bognor Regis & worthing. My children are aged 1 year, 4years & 6 1/2. I have emailed stage coach but have so far had no reply. So if any one here can give me some advice it would be much appreciated. Thanks in advance more

Resolved Question: What is the most spectacular ceremony you have ever witnessed ?

Melbourne, July 13 (ANI): Wedge-tailed eagles are now the latest accessories at weddings in Gold Coast, Australia. According to the Gold Coast Bulletin, a wedge-tailed eagle has been trained to swoop down the aisle over the heads of astonished guests to deliver the wedding rings to the best man or groom. "Ten years after you've been to a wedding you won't remember the food that you ate, but you will remember if an eagle flew in," News.com.au quoted Zanna Carey from Broadwings Events as saying. The eagle can perform its fly-in trick at weddings in churches, on beaches or in garden locations, and the rings are clipped to leather straps tied to its legs. All the best man or groom has to do is raise a gloved hand with a scrap of meat in it at the right moment during the ceremony, and the handler releases the bird. (ANI) http://in.news.yahoo.com/139/20100713/900/twl-wedge-tailed-eagle-is-latest-wedding_1.html more

Resolved Question: help.me.help.me.help.me?

So its pretty crazy but my boyfriend of 1 year and three months randomly broke up with me when i went over to his house one day, the night before we got in a really heated argument and started bickering, we went in his car and we both were histaryically crying and he then told me that night that he will see how things go and that wed still stay together, even still hugged me and stuff. but then the NEXT day, it got realllly emotional & I asked him if he wanted to break up, and he cried to me, "yeah". It killed me cus i just couldnt beleieve it. I know he still loves me ALOT and i love him. He said the reason was because therre was too much bickering between us lately and it was messing him up, plus his parents probably thought it would be better too for him. He has to go to work everyday and get ready for his senior year& stuff which i understand. But he always used to be the one to call me, and care alot, even when he said and wanted us to stay close and friends, for me to call him whenever i needed to talk about things in my life. After that he never called me back or texted me, this really shocked me. So then after that i decided to not bother to contact him eaither. Even deleted him off facebook, which i know he wouldnt ever do and once he would find out i know he'd be shocked i did so. Was this a good idea? Im going to a party this friday, should i take pictures with other guy friends and not care anymore, do things he wouldnt like me to do when we were together, just try and let go ? Even if it still hurts me and i know hes still hurt. I'm going thru soo many emotions right now which i heard is normal, hatred, sadness towards him. Im reallly angry now towards him so i deleted him off my facebook and i have the erge to make him wnat me back, idk. I know its alot, but its my first breakup and i dont know what to do. 8 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer. Additional Details P.S for this party, he isnt invited. Its a sweet 16, should i look more "sexier", im already a good looking girl (not concieted) lol, but yeah should i make a better effort for looking extra hot :)? noo rude or annoying or pointelss answers, idc how i sound right now over yahoo. I need some help. Thankya<3xo more

Resolved Question: First breakup, facebook, HELP?

So its pretty crazy but my boyfriend of 1 year and three months randomly broke up with me when i went over to his house one day, the night before we got in a really heated argument and started bickering, we went in his car and we both were histaryically crying and he then told me that night that he will see how things go and that wed still stay together, even still hugged me and stuff. but then the NEXT day, it got realllly emotional & I asked him if he wanted to break up, and he cried to me, "yeah". It killed me cus i just couldnt beleieve it. I know he still loves me ALOT and i love him. He said the reason was because therre was too much bickering between us lately and it was messing him up, plus his parents probably thought it would be better too for him. He has to go to work everyday and get ready for his senior year& stuff which i understand. But he always used to be the one to call me, and care alot, even when he said and wanted us to stay close and friends, for me to call him whenever i needed to talk about things in my life. After that he never called me back or texted me, this really shocked me. So then after that i decided to not bother to contact him eaither. Even deleted him off facebook, which i know he wouldnt ever do and once he would find out i know he'd be shocked i did so. Was this a good idea? Im going to a party this friday, should i take pictures with other guy friends and not care anymore, do things he wouldnt like me to do when we were together, just try and let go ? Even if it still hurts me and i know hes still hurt. I'm going thru soo many emotions right now which i heard is normal, hatred, sadness towards him. Im reallly angry now towards him so i deleted him off my facebook and i have the erge to make him wnat me back, idk. I know its alot, but its my first breakup and i dont know what to do.P.S for this party, he isnt invited. Its a sweet 16, should i look more "sexier", im already a good looking girl (not concieted) lol, but yeah should i make a better effort for looking extra hot :)? noo rude or annoying or pointelss answers, idc how i sound right now over yahoo. I need some help. Thankya<3xo more

Voting Question: URGENT!!! applying for UK spousal visa 2 1/2yrs after marriage!!!!?

I am a British (female) of Pakistani descent & 2 1/2yrs ago married a Pakistani (male) in Pakistan. I stayed there 1 1/2 months after marriage but kept falling ill so returned. At the time of marriage I wasn't working so a month after returning to the UK began seeking work. During this time my husband went to the UAE for 3 months initially, possibly extending to 3 years if he found suitable work. We decided to settle there and I would join him there once he settled in & found appropriate accommodation. I stopped searching for work & began planning my move there. 3 months flew by & he had to return as his visa was due to expire. When back in pakistan he was to return to the UAE shortly, as he'd been offered employment but due to other responsibilities could not for another 3 months so declined the offer. After 2 months it became apparent that this period would be extended a further 3 months. As I wasn't working I decided to join him & give life in Pakistan another chance & help him fulfil his responsibilities. So joined him a month later & stayed for 3 months but fell ill several times and couldn't cope with the conditions there, ie lack of electricity, political/economic unrest and the mentality of people there in general. So returned and began searching for work. 5 months down the line I found work, but still wasn't financially able to support him. After 8 months I went back to pakistan for a month to persuade him to move to the UK as I'd found it difficult adjusting there. He eventually agreed but only a short time before my return, which meant I was unable to make the application whilst I was there. Now a further 3 months down the line-a full 2 1/2 years later we are making the application. Will this in any way hamper our chances of obtaining a spousal visa for my husband as we have spent long bouts of time away from one another but have kept in touch via phone, email, txt, yahoo & msn messengers & skype? Also all the time I was out of work I never claimed any benefits or support from the government as I had enough savings to get by with. Also 5-6years ago he had a student visa rejected because his employer was funding his course & not a family member, will this be a problem? With the application I've sent an attested passport copy & pages showing proof of visiting pakistan. A copy of my NI card. A sponsor letter stating the above in detail. 9 months bank statements. 9 months payslips. A 1 year tenancy agreement. A letter from my employers accountant stating my employment details i.e. date, wages, NI no, tax ref. A P60 printed from the Inland Revenues website. Cards, chat logs, emails we've sent each other. Pictures from our wedding, pictures of both of our families & friends weddings we've attended in pakistan & other occasions. Our wedding dvd. Our wedding invitation cards. Do I need to send an employment contract, or will the accountants letter suffice? Do I need a confirmation of tenancy letter from my landlord as I house share? Do I need a guarantor letter stating that if at any time I/We are under financial difficulty they will support us? Do we require any other documents which will ensure our application will be dealt with quickly? Many Thanks in AdvanceWe are aware that his student visa refusal will still be on record, but not certain as to what extent this will affect the application now. We have known each other since we were kids, as we are family friends & I have visted Pakistan several times for holidays. I've spent lots of time with him and his family prior to our wedding over the years. The marriage was arranged but by our mutual consent. Lolll no it wasn't for money had that been the case I wouldn't have paid for the tickets to Pakistan. Nor would I have lived with him & his family or attended weddings, parties, functions etc in the presence of my family most of which is settled outside Pakistan. All of whom flew to Pakistan from around the world for the wedding, where we had approximately 600-700 close family & friends invited. He could have married a nice local girl but he's been in love with me for as long as he can remember & every member of his family will vouch for that & tease me till today :) Thanks Once AgainWill give them a call tomorrow :) Thanks Your Help & Advice Is Greatly Appreciated more

Resolved Question: Why is My family treating me this way. Should I go to my brothers Wedding or not Advice needed?

We always used to be a close family, I always did every thing I could and have always gone out my way to help my family. 12 years ago my oldest brother left his wife the day she had his 3rd child she was beside her self. I was only 17 at the time but I went to live with his wife and bought up and looked after his children for several years. I was the one who got up in the night when his daughter cried. I was the one who made his daughters bottles. I washed dressed fed, took his children to school and collected them again. I put them to bed at night. All whilst trying to do a college course at the same time. I never once got a thank you not even from his now ex wife. 7 years ago my other brother fell in to deep depression and hit rock bottom, he had no where to live no job nothing. Me and my husband took him in gave him a roof over his head, fed him etc and never asked for a penny in return. He got him self back on top He met a nice girl and even managed to get a good job as a policeman. Again I never got a thank you. My dad I was always close too, I have always looked out for him and always had him round for meals and would go for days out with him etc. The only thing I have ever done wrong, was giving up on university and my college degree as I could not cope when my mum died. I had a nervous break down and tried to commit suicide. I found it very hard as I was very close to my mum, She was not just my mum but my best friend too. 6 years ago we had to move away to the other end of the country for my husbands work. At the same time my sister moved to australia with her husband and son. For the 2 years my dad came up to see ups regularly and we would go and see him. Then 3 1/2 years ago when he got with his new partner the visits stopped. He has not been to see us in 3 years, he goes every year to australia for 3 weeks to see my sister he just won't come to see us. He rarely phones and when he does phone he just puts me down and is rude. The last time I went down was to take his new baby grand daughter to see him but we wish we hadn't gone. I asked him if he wanted to hold her. He answered I don't do baby's but if I have to I will. He also kept saying I hope you are going to get done now so you don't have any more children. He made many other rude comments and made us feel very un welcome. We left a day early in the end and went to see friends in the instead. My brothers are the same they used to come and Visit but don't any more and very rarely phone I have to phone them. My brother is getting married is september and he has asked us to come we said yes but yesterday we saw a copy of the table plan and they have put us on a table right at the back miles away from every one, with every one elses children. So we have to look after every one Else's children. THis really up set me and my husband and makes us feel perhaps we are not wanted at the wedding. We are wondering whether to go or not. do you think we should go what would you do in this situation would you find this insulting or am I just being paranoid. We are thinking maybe just going to the wedding service and not going to the meal and party after wards. Maybe we should go and just try and put up with the situation, I don't want to spoil there wedding Why are my family being like this I just don't know what I have done. It is really upsetting me and I can't stop crying. Any advice would be much appreciated thanks in advance Ps Im sorry its so long. more

Resolved Question: He cheated on me and now this?

Me and my ex boyfriend broke up in january because i found out the last year had been a lie,he had been living a double life ,living with a girl and then me on the other side of town.I confronted him and he cut me off and changed his number. He is best man and im bridesmaid at a wedding happening on sunday,today was the rehersal and an half hour before he was meant to be there he canceled saying he sister was rushed in hospital.This would of been the first time we met since we broke up.Anybody else i would believe but he is a compulsive liar said he was in canada,and didnt have a passport,and said he had 1 baby but had 2 etc etc,lied he was single and in love with me had a girlfriend ,told me he couldnt come over one night as he was in hospital and when i rang the hospital to see what ward he was on to visit him,he hadnt even been admitted,no trace of him Do you think he didnt go because i was there and he was too scared or does he hate me that much?but im the one he cheated on not the other way round,was he just a coward?could he not face me?if i could go after everything surely he could,was that actions of somebody who feels guilty? I know i shud get over him but he was part of my life for 4 years,its a long time to just stop loving somebody,ive asked this before i just would like others opinions.Do you reckon he was too embarrased to see me? more

Resolved Question: I cant believe my ex boyfriend did this?

Me and my ex boyfriend broke up in january because i found out the last year had been a lie,he had been living a double life ,living with a girl and then me on the other side of town.I confronted him and he cut me off and changed his number. He is best man and im bridesmaid at a wedding happening on sunday,today was the rehersal and an half hour before he was meant to be there he canceled saying he sister was rushed in hospital.This would of been the first time we met since we broke up.Anybody else i would believe but he is a compulsive liar said he was in canada,and didnt have a passport,and said he had 1 baby but had 2 etc etc,lied he was single and in love with me had a girlfriend ,told me he couldnt come over one night as he was in hospital and when i rang the hospital to see what ward he was on to visit him,he hadnt even been admitted,no trace of him Do you think he didnt go because i was there and he was too scared or does he hate me that much?but im the one he cheated on not the other way round,was he just a coward?could he not face me?if i could go after everything surely he could,was that actions of somebody who feels guilty? I know i shud get over him but he was part of my life for 4 years,its a long time to just stop loving somebody,ive asked this before i just would like others opinions.Do you reckon he was too embarrased to see me?its hard because he was the love iof my life and i still care for him and the sad thing is i was looking forward to seeing him. more

Resolved Question: I cant believe my ex did this ?

Me and my ex boyfriend broke up in january because i found out the last year had been a lie,he had been living a double life ,living with a girl and then me on the other side of town.I confronted him and he cut me off and changed his number. He is best man and im bridesmaid at a wedding happening on sunday,today was the rehersal and an half hour before he was meant to be there he canceled saying he sister was rushed in hospital.This would of been the first time we met since we broke up.Anybody else i would believe but he is a compulsive liar said he was in canada,and didnt have a passport,and said he had 1 baby but had 2 etc etc,lied he was single and in love with me had a girlfriend etc etc Do you think he didnt go because i was there and he was too scared or does he hate me that much?but im the one he cheated on not the other way round,was he just a coward?could he not face me?if i could go after everything surely he could,was that actions of somebody who feels guilty? more

Resolved Question: Its been confirmed my ex has no balls?

Me and my ex boyfriend broke up in january because i found out the last year had been a lie,he had been living a double life ,living with a girl and then me on the other side of town.I confronted him and he cut me off and changed his number. He is best man and im bridesmaid at a wedding happening on sunday,today was the rehersal and an hour before he canceled saying he sister was in hospital.This would of been the first time we met since we broke up.Anybody else i would believe but he is a compulsive liar said he was in canada,and didnt have a passport,and said he had 1 baby but had 2 etc etc,lied he was single and in love with me had a girlfriend etc etc Do you think he didnt go because i was there and he was too scared or does he hate me that much?but im the one he cheated on not the other way round,was he just a coward?could he not face me?if i could go after everything surely he could,was that actions of somebody who feels guilty? more

Resolved Question: Would you believe this?

Me and my ex boyfriend broke up in january because i found out the last year had been a lie,he had been living a double life ,living with a girl and then me on the other side of town.I confronted him and he cut me off and changed his number. He is best man and im bridesmaid at a wedding happening on sunday,today was the rehersal and an hour before he canceled saying he sister was in hospital.This would of been the first time we met since we broke up.Anybody else i would believe but he is a compulsive liar said he was in canada,and didnt have a passport,and said he had 1 baby but had 2 etc etc,lied he was single and in love with me had a girlfriend etc etc Do you think he didnt go because i was there and he was too scared or does he hate me that much?but im the one he cheated on not the other way round,was he just a coward? more

Resolved Question: Better to marry than to burn with passion Christians PLEASE HELP!!?

Hi I am a Christian woman happily engaged to a loving Christian man.Above all we love God and aim to please Him.We started out our relationship so innocently,deciding that it would be better to have very little physical communication.And quickly we fell in love totally unexpected.He proposed and wanted to set a summer date for our wedding. And that is where the problems began..his parents,who were his pastors at the time,thought that a summer wedding would be too soon,and they wanted us to wait until the end of the year.We were sad about this but we didn't want to rebel against his parents,so we decided on a December wedding. HOWEVER we are now left BURNING with passion..and with NO self control it seems,I mean we have tried everything,and THANX be to God we have not had sex but it just seems every time im with him I am just wanting to be intimate and sometimes we kiss and touch..it tears us apart each time we feel we have gone too far... I have now resorted to suggesting that we move the wedding forward again..I would rather upset his parents by marrying earlier than living in sin... Please somebody help me..I feel so hurt upset and like there is no way out..WE REALLY love God... "But I say to the unmarried and to the widows: It is good for them if they remain even as I am; but if they cannot exercise self-control, let them marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion."1 Corinthians 7:8-10 more

Resolved Question: He cheated on me,what am i going to do?

Il be seeing my ex at a wedding rehersal tommorow night for the first time since we broke up in december,basicaly i found out after 1 year he was living a double life,actualy living with somebody ,when i confronted him he denied it but then changed his number and cut me out of his life. Tommorow i will see him ,how can i get through this with some dignity,i thought we were in love,i went from being so happy to heartbroken overnight, Do you think he will be nervous about it? He text me 4 weeks again saying you looking forward to the wedding?Hes been asking mutual friends how i am and am i seeing anybody? Is this going to be so awkward? more

Voting Question: I feel nervous seeing my ex?

Il be seeing my ex at a wedding rehersal tommorow night for the first time since we broke up in december,basicaly i found out after 1 year he was living a double life,actualy living with somebody ,when i confronted him he denied it but then changed his number and cut me out of his life. Tommorow i will see him ,how can i get through this with some dignity,i thought we were in love,i went from being so happy to heartbroken overnight, Do you think he will be nervous about it? He text me 4 weeks again saying you looking forward to the wedding?Hes been asking mutual friends how i am and am i seeing anybody? Is this going to be so awkward? more

Resolved Question: So he cheated on me,i need some help?

Il be seeing my ex at a wedding rehersal tommorow night for the first time since we broke up in december,basicaly i found out after 1 year he was living a double life,actualy living with somebody ,when i confronted him he denied it but then changed his number and cut me out of his life. Tommorow i will see him ,how can i get through this with some dignity,i thought we were in love,i went from being so happy to heartbroken overnight, Do you think he will be nervous about it? He text me 4 weeks again saying you looking forward to the wedding?Hes been asking mutual friends how i am and am i seeing anybody? Is this going to be so awkward? more

Voting Question: Seeing ex boyfriend for the first time since we broke up 6 months ago help?

Il be seeing my ex at a wedding rehersal tommorow night for the first time since we broke up in december,basicaly i found out after 1 year he was living a double life,actualy living with somebody ,when i confronted him he denied it but then changed his number and cut me out of his life. Tommorow i will see him ,how can i get through this with some dignity,i thought we were in love,i went from being so happy to heartbroken overnight, Do you think he will be nervous about it? He text me 4 weeks again saying you looking forward to the wedding?Hes been asking mutual friends how i am and am i seeing anybody? Is this going to be so awkward? more

Voting Question: Which wedding photographer?

Hello all, I could use a hand with this decision as I've heard so many disaster stories!! We have done some research on our local photography services and have narrowed it down to the final 2. I can't decide between them both though! Photographer 1 :- Met us at the venue, wore his business polo shirt and trousers, got on with him straight away and very comfortable to ask questions, had more of a laid back attitude. Reduced the price as we are interested in booking for 2 days (Indian wedding!) Didn't bring any portfolios as he does CD only (Which is what we want), hasn't shot at our venue for a few years, had some good ideas and said he would investigate the venue in more detail and the surrounding area. Photographer 2 :- Invited us to his house, jeans and t-shirt dressed, showed us 3 albums and talked about the pricing for the albums even though we said we didn't want any. Very professional with set packages. Didn't give much opportunity to ask my own questions and had 'set answers' to the ones I did ask. Has shot at our venue many times and has alot of good ideas. Would most likely try to enforce more of 'his style' on the photos. Slightly better print quality I think. Is there anything else I should consider? What do you all think? Thanks in advance MM :) xXx more

Voting Question: Help!! Ive lost my engagement ring! Can I claim on my home insurance?

Im pregnant, and it was hot out. I took my engagement ring and wedding ring off and put them in my purse as my fingers were swollen and hurting. I have lost my purse. I only went to one restaurant and three shops. I have called all four places and nothing has been handed in. There was maybe around£150 in cash and few cards in my purse also. I don't know if my purse was taken from my bag or if I stupidly left it on a side and forgot to pick it up. Basically I don't know 1) how I report this to the police(in terms of needing their reference number for an insurance clim) do I say it was lost or stolen? and 2) because the rings had been taken off my finger where they should have been, will the insurance use this to weasel their way out of paying the claim. EXTRA INFO>>> I specified the value of my engagement ring on my policy, £2300. I have personal possessions cover. It is my first year of insurance in my own name. My wedding ring is worth approx. £1200 but I got it through a jeweler who sold me it@cost £800. I will not get the same price this time round, as the material price has gone up. Will the insurance only pay what i paid, or enough to replace on a like for like basis? Sorry for the long explanation, but wanted to give ALL relevant details? Thankkkks =) more

Resolved Question: poll: if/why did you change your mind about your children/siblings going to parties when got to a certain age?

i am 16 years old and am going to a party next week. i have told my parents that there are going to be boys and alcohol there and they seemed fine with this (they are usually against me drinking anything and i was only allowed 1 glass of champagne at my cousins wedding) i don't really understand why they are suddenly ok with this. any parents or older siblings able to tell me if/why they had a change of opinion when their siblings/children got to a certain age? more

Resolved Question: Should there be limits on how often a person can marry?

"A 107-year-old Malaysian woman has said she wants to get married again, for the 23rd time, as she fears her husband wants to leave her, says a report. When Wook Kundor married four years ago to a man 70 years her junior their wedding photos made regional media." This was a story from last year though. http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/asia-pacific/8255239.stm more

Resolved Question: Do you like these names + short bng?

What do you think of these names? Girl - Darcie/Darcy Boy - Sebastian. 1) You randomly meet a guy and after a whirlwind romance he proposes to you. You say yes. Where do you wed/honeymoon. Whats your dress like etc. 2) After been married for just 2 month you find out your pregnant. It's a boy. His initials are LJ. 3) When your son is two your get pregnant again. It's twin girls. Their first names must be themed. One of their middle names begins with a L and the other begins with an A. 4) You are living in a small house and it's getting too crowded. You decide to move. Attach a pic of your dream house. 5) A year after settling into your new home you and your husband are excited when you conceive again. This time its triplets! Two boys and one girl. The first boy has the initials FJ, the other boy has the initials NT and you give the girl the most sweet/girlie name ever. Thanks and star if you like :) more

Resolved Question: what else can I do to shift 3 stone?

I have slowly gained 3stone in the pass 3 years, I watch what I eat like a hawk, I walk 4 miles a day as part of my fitness plan, up hill and though the woods, so its not a level ground. this takes me 1 and 1/2hrs to do, which I do each day after work and at the weekends, I also went to the gym which I have now stopped,as I feel like I'm wasting my money, I've lost 5lb two weeks ago only to have gained it back this week? I feel like I'm swimming against the tide! /Nothing seems to want to shift the weight off, I must admit, I didn't eat breakfast,but have included this in my diet now,so I have 3 meals a day and 2 snacks a day. I know not to eat all the wrong stuff, so any ideas what else I can do? this is getting me down now, as i've a wedding to attend next year, so i'm allowing myself a year to lose the 3 stone, but at this rate, I cant see it happening??I drink water and I dont touch soda drinks, dont really like them, so its easy to stay away from them. I've not counted calories, and I know my portion size are small. I seem to lose weight from my face! :p its not my face thats fat! haha its my middle!! more

Resolved Question: I want to cancel my gcse exam...?

My dad passed away in a road accident 3 weeks ago and the funeral was on the 11th (last week). I havent had time to do anything I am in yr 10 so i have my GCSE's to do i have only 5 this year I have done 2 and I have 3 left. I have... 1 on tues and its RE 1 on wed and its biology 1 the next wed and its biology I am fine with biology because I'm good with it but RE I cant do and its all reading and there is so much to it and i cant concentrate revising.I would like to cancel the RE one... because i've been stressed and mainly revising biology because that is the majority of what i'm doing and every time I try to revise RE i get stressed and cry etc... I know that if I do the RE exam I will fail it and since I am in the second top and all my target grades are A* and I would be happy with a B but I dont want to fail and the RE is 25% of my RE GCSE....My mum wants to call on Monday but that's only one day before the exam... and I doubt anything would be possible. more

Resolved Question: what I should I get my boyfriend?

Ok I am 14 going to be 15 and my boyfriend is 16. He is going to give me a ring for our 1 year. lol not a wedding ring but like just I love you and never will leave you ring. what do i get him. I have no idea what to get. PLEASE help. Something he can see I took time to do. more

Resolved Question: How to C21 remix Shakespeare @ how to improve Y/A? The quantity of messing about is not restrained to help us?

For over 1.25 years, I've fwd'd 'Net forum Q/A's weekly to my best pal, as research for his voluntary 5-hours show, Wed 2-7am, UK time, on local volunteer-staffed community station whose webcasts are popular worldwide, especially among the many studying English as a foreign language, who are encouraged to listen to English language 'Net radio stations News that we Scouser are the funniest, most entertaining ones has given us many loyal listeners Anyway, it suddenly hit me that, despite my networking skills, many fascinating questions get many surprisingly shallow answers & few well thought-out ones, so MANY Y/A'ers unused to creative persistent ingenuity must be very frustrated? & that's why, each time my pal & I hit Y/A maximum of 200 contacts & hit last pages first, there are always a fair % of folk who aint been in Y/A for 2/3 months? & a fair % of user profiles deleted? Do YOU find that too ?? Why is it? How can we improve Y/A? To help you assess, here's my 20 most recent questions - for you to analyse results & help? Do you ask God to give you Joel 2 godly dreams & 'night visions'? 2 give U a 'spirit of wisdom & revelation'? In Religion & Spirituality - Asked by HooDurzWinz2 - 4 answers - 41 minutes ago - Open I love trying to spot really good bands & singer songwriters before they make it big time: who's in your area? In Rock and Pop - Asked by HooDurzWinz2 - 7 answers - 14 hours ago How was the half term break? Did you do anything special? Looking forward to summer garden fetes? Any links? In Singles & Dating - Asked by HooDurzWinz2 - 2 answers - 14 hours ago Man was created with inborn instinct to worship? If you don't worship the Almighty Creator, you worship idols? 3 In Religion & Spirituality - Asked by HooDurzWinz2 - 17 answers - 1 day ago - Resolved Did you wake up to BBC Dawn Patrol say @ Walking Under A Dark Cloud? Does UK have a deep sense of foreboding? In Politics - Asked by HooDurzWinz2 - 2 answers - 1 day ago I'm sure all BBC radio stations are asking folk to ring in messages of comfort & encouragement for Cumbria? In Religion & Spirituality - Check for best answer - Asked by HooDurzWinz2 - 1 answer - 2 days ago - Open On such a fine Sunday, where & how do YOU enjoy open air worship of the Almighty Creator in beautiful areas? In Religion & Spirituality - Check for best answer - Asked by HooDurzWinz2 - 4 answers - 2 days ago - Open Sunny Sunday best long romantic walks? Post virtual tour links for YOUR favourite beauty spot areas? In Singles & Dating - Check for best answer - Asked by HooDurzWinz2 - 2 answers - 2 days ago - Open Anyone researching international reactions to the Cumbria killings? Response time of 42 armed copter cops? In Current Events - Asked by HooDurzWinz2 - 6 answers - 3 days ago - Open Are any other ace, awesome fab female singers guitarist songwriters' youtube sites down? As Adorable Ashley's? In Other - Entertainment - Asked by HooDurzWinz2 - 1 answer - 4 days ago - In Voting Wanna post a kinda half term holidays singular dates to remember diary? & plans for today? & the weekend? In Singles & Dating - Asked by HooDurzWinz2 - 2 answers - 4 days ago - In Voting Heard of these funny folk who have 3/4 books on the go @ once? I'm even in 3 weekly groups of 'em: how @ YOU? In Books & Authors - Asked by HooDurzWinz2 - 2 answers - 6 days ago - Resolved OK, Sherlock .. Wanna get away from ya new movie fans? Moriarty may hide in Yorkshire Moors ?? Dartmoor ?? OR? In Jokes & Riddles - Asked by HooDurzWinz2 - 3 answers - 1 week ago - Resolved How many folk are Top Contributors in 3/4 Y/A sections? How many are TC in 5/6 sections? Race U to the record? 1 In Polls & Surveys - Asked by HooDurzWinz2 - 1 answer - 1 week ago - Resolved As so many big cats dying out, do ya like good zoos? Cordially invite all to meet up Sat @ 1pm @ Chester Zoo? In Singles & Dating - Asked by HooDurzWinz2 - 1 answer - 1 week ago - Resolved How was your Sunday? How was Fri & Sat? How do ya plan to make Brit Bank Holiday Monday even better? Whats on? In Other - Holidays - Asked by HooDurzWinz2 - 3 answers - 1 week ago - Resolved Young 'uns: R U encouraged to know there are things wise old timers need to ask you for advice? Video editing? In Polls & Surveys - Asked by HooDurzWinz2 - 1 answer - 1 week ago - In Voting Are you new here? Competitive? A self-motivating goal-oriented target setter? Need something to aim at to aid? 1 In Polls & Surveys - Asked by HooDurzWinz2 - 3 answers - 1 week ago - In Voting Dates that go down in history? Or maybe infamy? Y? Names changed to protect the innocent? R U creative writer? In more

Resolved Question: hows this for a healthy diet..............?

hey everyone, looking for some help with my diet! Since january this year i have been on a serious health kick going from doing no excercise at all and having really bad food for breakfast eg pot noodle (yes for breakfast, bad i know!!) lunch was always calorific too. I am 5foot4 and before the health kick weighed 11 stone 6 pounds, i now weigh 10 stone 4 pounds but have been this weight for nearly 2 months now, i cannot get any lighter :( i would really like to get my weight down a bit more without having to starve myself! i am very picky with food and do not have much time to prepare food to take into work so i cannot eat most of the idea's i have found on the net! i hope somebody can show me where i am going wrong!! here is my daily diet........... breakfast - 1 egg scrambled with chopped grilled bacon plus one slice of wholemeal bread (no spread) OR beans on toast (no spread) lunch - pitta bread filled with salad and either tuna, egg or chicken (with low fat mayo & peppers) OR baked potato with same fillings as pitta's OR chicken wrap with veggies dinner - breaded chicken or fish served with salad (lettuce,sweetcorn,peppers,tomato's) plus one potato waffle OR 3 potato croquettes. snacks - banana's, kellogs fiber plus bars, packet of skips or quavers (dont like dried fruit, nuts or seeds so wont snack on them!) i go to gym classes 3 or 4 times a week; monday - bums n tums - 1 hour wed - bums n tums 1 hour, followed by boxercise 1 hour friday - zumba dance sat - 1 hour in gym (treadmills and bikes mostly) although i sometimes give this a miss as i hate the gym haha!! be great if anybody can help me out, much appreciated :) more

Resolved Question: How do I solve my wedding visa problems?

2 years ago i worked in Djibouti and met a girl there who i really fell in love with. Anyway to cut a long story short we want to marry. Problem 1 is that its illegal to marry in Djibouti as we are from different religions. Problem 2 is that we both now work in Kurdistan and face that same issue. if we go to the uk she would have to reside for a month beforehand just to be eligable to apply, That would mean losing a good job here. What do we do? We don't want to bother anyone, we just love each other and want to get married. more

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Dallas woman sentenced to 4 years for DWI crash that killed teen - Dallas Morning News

the average sentence in Texas for people charged with intoxication manslaughter is 15.7 years. According to trial testimony, Martinez had had a few drinks at a wedding reception at the Gleneagles Country Club in ...

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Britney Spears tours Maui wedding chapel while on vacation with boyfriend - New York Post

... Thursday -- "the most sought-out destination in the world for weddings," according to its website. The "Oops!...I Did It Again" singer, 28, and her former manager have been dating for over a year but a source ...

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With 1 cold slap, Summer of Blago slips away - Chicago Tribune

... Elizabeth have been planning their wedding for later this month. Every legman of this column (and legwoman) has gotten married, except Spartacus, who is finishing law school. It was an excellent year for ...

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Dallas-area wedding venues offer a hand to brides left in lurch by banquet hall's shutdown - Dallas Morning News

Their attorney said they tried to keep the banquet hall afloat so that they could continue to put on weddings and receptions at least through the end of the year. But they were $42,000 behind in rent and other ...

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Holloway: We All Dream Of a Team Of Sir Ian Holloways! Quotes From a Special 1! - Bleacherreport.com

Like his team’s shirts this year, this man is going to light up the usual boring segments between highlights ... not just save him for weddings.” - on veteran striker Paul Furlong. “We need a big, ugly defender.

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Holiday jaunts expected to increase this year - Pittsburgh Tribune-Review

... year but well shy of the decade-high 45.1 million in 2008 ... for a nephew's wedding Saturday. She's heading back the next day. Fox isn't worried about increased traffic. "I'm kind of easygoing. We get there ...

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Hurricane Katrina, 5 years later: Chefs add flavor to Birmingham's food community - Everything Alabama Blog

Five years have gone by ... moving the wedding from New Orleans to Birmingham. At Hot and Hot, Chris soon worked his way up from line cook to sous chef, and Laura become Hastings' personal assistant, helping him and ...

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One for the history books: Couple wed outside 100-year-old - Portage Daily Register

Harris said he and his bride considered other outdoor venues for the wedding, including Pauquette Park in Portage. He said he met Fietz at a bowling tournament about two years ago, and she's the reason he's ending a ...

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Carrie Underwood's wedding may be fodder for jokes at CMA Awards as she, Paisley are to host - Los Angeles Times

... Carrie Underwood's wedding was one of the most special days of her life, but it will likely become fodder for jokes when she and Brad Paisley host the Country Music Association Awards for the third year in a row.

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Church rebukes minister for same-sex weddings - San Francisco Gate

court rebuked a pastor Friday for performing same-sex weddings - but at the same time praised her for her "prophetic ... Spahr won a similar case two years ago after appealing to the council a Synod rebuke for ...

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